Love, Break-Up, Freindzoned is trending. This is why...

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Aaj Pooja Kal Dooja' aka Nikhil here.

Writing has always been my passion. It allows me to shout silently. Tech/Socio era has made me turn from Single Line pages & Pen to Blog & Keyboard. So, losing weight and writing BLOG were my 2016 New Year resolutions. Never mind about the first, but I will stick to the second. Couldn't have find a better day  than Valentine's, wherein Love is in the Air. By no means, I would try and be a Will Smith or Salman Khan. I am just going to express from what I observe.

I think Loving someone is the easiest thing to do.

C.T.U.(Those who thought CTU means Counter Terrorist Unit are Fans of '24' like Me, and are Single, again Like Me).Care, Trust and Understand and you are ready to be called an Awesome Lover. These 3 things make it the most difficult job on the planet too.

We generally have 2 kinds of Boy-friends: Begging, pleading, on their knees so that his girl doesn't break-up. Chuck Ego, this type has forgotten Self-Respect, just like an SRK fan has forgot Ra-One. Second type is: Violent, spoiled brat, who finds no difference between Toy and his Girl.

Can't we strike the right balance?

                                      

Woo her, hold her hand in public, and give her the extra attention when with a bunch of mates.

Never ever forget to respect her, before you love her and  she'll do anything for you. How much ever we talk about equality, he needs her more than she needs him.

I completely agree Pyaar Ka Punchnama was just a movie and hence dramatized, but no smoke without fire. Pretty girls,you have got us to a situation wherein a misogyny movie can be related with.

Girls tend to misuse his too much availability. Do not make 'taking for granted' as your favorite pastime. Real Men cry as well, needs to be understood. Yes, Male Ego is a well-known term but no harm in making him feel special over your so called best friend.

According to me, worst enemies for a relationship these days are Facebook and Whatsapp. Last Seen has killed faith to a large extent. Yes, one must absolutely trust his/her partner, but at the same time, not making him/her look a fool is equally important, ins't it?

I can go on and on...

Before I conclude, I would like to touch two words that are in style, 'Friend-zoned' and 'Move-On'

Friend-zoned is 'I Love you, but...' category. For me, in Love it's all or nothing. Date her/ Marry her, try everything you could to convince your partner. However, if it's not happening, Move-On and Cut the strings. It's only stupid to continue as 'Just Friends' and bury your heart, watching him/her go on a Date with someone else.

'Move-On', phase has to be strictly dealt in a matured manner. Abusing her, commenting on her character, will only show your character. Drinking only prospers the hotel owner. Wish them Luck, have highest regards and say Good-Bye. Easy isn't it? Naah! I know it isn't but probably only way.

Most important thing is, never ever get into next relationship quickly only because you are single. Keep yourselves on reserve for the one who deserve. It's the best time to pursue Hobbies and spend priceless time with your family.

Okay Friends, signing off my first Blog. Hope you could relate.

May love be with you, always and forever. Happy Valentine’s Day.

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