Let's address the Elephant in the room

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Fatty Acid' aka Nikhil here.

While, we tend to show sympathy towards a particular block of society, why do we think it's Okay to make fun of overweight people?

How easily we address our overweight friend as Fatty, Fatso, Jadya, Potato etc. Harassing and bullying him gives us immense pleasure, ins't it? Guys, we can't even imagine what he goes through in his daily life. When our biology teacher was teaching us obesity, the entire class wasted no time in looking at our fat classmate mockingly, in a meeting, our manager says, 'Let's address the elephant in the room' and we all stare and wink at our obese colleague, an auto-rickshaw driver doesn't allow him to sit in front, as soon as he touches a T-Shirt, the shopkeeper denies having his size. There are numerous such small things which leaves him depressed and shatters his self-confidence completely.

Did we even know that obesity is a medical condition? How easily we attach fatness to food and over eating. We, the predators who mock the obese mustn't forget that stress, illness, life saving drugs, diseases like diabetes lead to weight gain too. Why am I even justifying? Even if over eating was the reason, torturing overweight people is an unacceptable form of bigotry.

So one may say, we call them fat because that's what they are, what's wrong in that? Okay, then going by the same logic will it be cool if people start addressing us as 'Ugly', 'Poor' or 'Unsuccessful'. Wouldn't that be funny too, No?

Make no mistake, nobody is advocating to stay fat here. It's absolutely necessary to maintain a healthy weight, eat clean and exercise, but there are a better ways of motivating. A person who truly cares, will pull you up and not push down deeper, simple as that. Next time we meet a fat guy, he doesn't deserve to be ridiculed and ain't a loser by any means, must be remembered.

Chew the fat

Beard chooses you - The tale of Mane & Men

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Bearded Baba' aka Nikhil here.

I am not a male chauvinist by any means but this Blog is about Beard. It may sound funny, but I am a fan of Beard and I am pretty sure many of you are too. Mind you, Raees is trending, Rahul isn't 😜. Completely agreed it's genetically driven, hence the saying, 'Grow what your Dad gave you'.

Trust me guys, you look awesome in Beard. Do not listen to that smooth faced friend of yours who asks you to shave and compares you with Dacoit. He is just jealous, as you have what he wants. If your Girl-friend has a good taste, she will absolutely love thy Beard. If she doesn't, you will have to change. Don't ask what, because if you sacrifice you beard for her, you deserve neither. Be rest assured, Men without Beard have a name, 'Women'. Prefer being Single over being a Women.

Your biggest threat is your own Mom. Is there any Mother in the world who loves Beard? She always wants you clean shaven and look like 4 at 28. You will have to tackle her. When asked to shave, give her Indian minster's assurance, change the topic, give silly reasons and run from the situation.
Job interviews and wedding ceremonies will empower her but you got to remain Strong & Bearded.

LoL, there are some scientific advantages of Beard too, but who needs them. Remember, your Beard is your mane that differentiates a Horse from a Donkey. May the weight of manhood never be too heavy for you and the tale of Men & Mane continue forever. However, readers it was all in a funny and sarcastic taste. But the eternal truth is, Beard doesn't make you a man, how you treat her does.

MARD
Men Against Rape & Descrimination

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I bet you don't know what separates SRK from the rest of the lot

Hello Lovely People,
This is Nikhil, naam toh suna hoga.

Never mind about his movies, his trailer launch also trends on Twitter and Facebook. Stunned by his bearded look and Raees trailer, I thought of writing a Blog about the man himself, Dr. Shah Rukh Khan.

So, what separates King Khan from the rest of the lot? An outsider to this industry, the man who had no Godfather, no ready red carpet and yet here he is today being the Godfather himself, who has made the red carpet his own. The Self-made actor is ruling Bollywood since last two and half decades. With the most number of Film-fare awards, he must be Numero-Uno indeed.

An astounding facet of his life is, him being the perfect family man. A lovable husband and a dotting father, has never ever over-shadowed the Superstar in him. Loyalty is the rarest virtue in the film line, which only a handful could possess. Love him or hate him, but his journey from Nothing to Everything, from Middle-class to Mannat is truly inspiring. It is only apt that Mr. Mahesh Bhatt has suggested him the title for his autobiography, 'Twenty Years of a Decade'.

Apart from being easily the wittiest actor, he has that Baniye ka Dimaag too. He is a successful businessman too. Delhi boy, who had no money to travel back, today owns the costliest vanity in town. LoL, did you know, the second (Damn) richest actor in the world also owns a real estate company in Guernsey(An island known for its light taxes and easy regulations 😜). Let's learn it from his advice, 'Don't become a philosopher before you become rich'.

However, he wasn't always the Baadshah. A kid who lost his father at 15 and mother at 25 came to Mumbai for work. Now that itself sounds as a daunting task. Fed up by the rejections and trouble this city gave him, one day in sheer anger he shouted from a bridge, 'One day I will rule this city'. Little did he knew, that God obliged at that very moment.

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I know, its pretty easy to get inspired by actors, their style, their looks but let's admire him not just as an actor but as a personality. A man who prefers to put things bluntly, rather than hiding behind fake modesty. He truly believes he is the best, and hence the sun never sets on him. Only actor who has received the Doctorate from University of Edinburgh, Only actor to be invited by Oxford university for a speech, Only actor who a lane by his name in Russia, Only actor whose movies are tax free in Germany must be the Only Actor Mr. Shah Rukh Khan.

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Reasons why you should embrace Death & enjoy Defeat

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Mr. Hatke' aka Nikhil here.

Life is Beautiful, Live life King size, Winning is everything, Winner takes all. So many more such quotes we read n listen about Life and Winning. Does anybody talk about Death and Defeat?

DEATH: The only inevitable thing, the universal truth. How much every grand life we live, cant escape out of it alive. Friends, we must face the truth, that there isn't one family who hasn't experienced the Good Bye of their closed ones. It hurts the most, when someone young leaves, otherwise we got to accept it as a law of nature and embrace. Let's pray to God, that nobody deserves to die in an Accident. My Dad used to say, happiest is the man who gets a sound sleep daily and who dies peacefully. I see it this way, our grandparents leave us crying only to allow us to welcome infants with a smile.

On this note, I would also like to address the last rites that we perform. It's actually more painful than the death itself. Can't we be a little more progressive? It is really Hypocritical, when a son spends a lot of money on the last rites of his father, who died in an old age home. We would be nothing more than ash unless we exit in a giving manner by donating our eyes, skin, organs. Now, that for me is a real 'Life after Death'.

DEFEAT: It is without a doubt that one should play to win. But, it's equally important to enjoy the game. It could be game of Cricket or game of Life. One cannot taste success all the time. Only Defeat teaches us the importance of winning. Coming second will teaches you the biggest virtue of life, 'patience'. Patience doesn't mean waiting for you to win, it means waiting with a right attitude.

Aren't their some bets, which we are happier losing. Greatest is that victory when you feel like you won even after losing. Accepting defeat with a smile is always preferable over a forced win. The day people start celebrating defeats, world would be a much happier place to live in.  So, the next time you lose, wear a smile.

DEATH & DEFEAT: Not sure how able I am at Metaphors. I see these too things as analogical. Death is when you finally accept your defeat to mortality, whereas Defeat is when your expectations Die. Both are unavoidable, the prior is permanent while the latter is temporary, we mustn't forget.

Allow me to quote, couple of lines from“Death be not Proud” by John Donne:

One short sleep past, we wake eternally

And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die. 

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Let us celebrate Thanksgiving, the Indian way

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Tom Thanks' aka Nikhil here.

It's the fourth Thursday of November, the 'Thanksgiving' day. For us, it's the day when we get cheap goods at cheaper price in US. While you are busy preparing a Turkey Feast, let me take this opportunity and commemorate the day by thanking everyone who have left a mark, knowingly or unknowingly on my life.

 

Can anyone thank their parents enough? Aai-Baba (Mom-Dad) you are simply the best in the world. Whatever I am today is all because of you. Thank you Mom, for still treating me as your child, for bearing my tantrums. Trust me Mom, keeping you happy is the only thing I want to do. Dad, we miss you. Well, actually I don't, because whenever a selfish Me needs your advice, I close my eyes and you give me the answer. Your awe, prevents me from pursuing any ill-habits. Dad, you know what, Mom went for Euro trip. She had an absolute blast. Sorry, I could not fulfill that dream of your's and that scar will stay with me forever. Love you Aai, Love you Baba. Thank you for being Mine.

Thank you to all my Amigos. My laziness, fuss, silly fights, irritation has only troubled you. Ignoring all these things, you guys still chose to stick with me, I must be really lucky. Trust me friends, you are my second family. Well, not all of you, some of you are 😜 Sorry, if my Sarcasm bothered you. A Bigger Sorry, coz I won't stop.

Honestly speaking, I don't get admired easily. There are very few people who have left a lasting impression on me. A very common childhood hero of almost all of us, Bharat Ratna Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar. How many personalities do you address only with their first name? I defy calling him God, but he can't be called just a sportsperson either.  All of us still hate Steve Bucknor. Thank you Sachin for making our childhood memorable.I am afraid to say, but Cricket has almost retired for me.

There may be other Bloggers, but I am the BEST. I think this stupid line of mine should be more than enough to guess who my favorite actor is. The ever (Un)modest, ever witty and the smartest, Dr. Shah Rukh Khan. They say you taught us love, I say you taught us the persistence in Love. Self confidence that you have is impeccable .Yes, I do agree, you are the last of the Stars.

Sometimes, I am amazed that our nation required an election procedure to decide that Hon. Mr. Narendra Modi is better than 'Him'. He is indeed the best PM we ever had. Mind you, I am not his, 'Chamcha' or 'Bhakt' (Devotee) but facts prevail. We praise him because he is actually good, Opposition hates him because they cant be him. He is probably our last hope to make Mera Bharat Mahaan, again. Thank you sir for your efforts on 'Clean' India.

Who doesn't love Dr. A.P.J Abdul Kalam Sir? I am sure, even Science loved the Missile Man of India. Anil Bokil, Vithal Kamat, Achyut Godbole are some of the orators I love listening to. A very special mention has to be made of the entire Amte and Bang family and Sindhutai Sakpal. They can't be called just humans. We can only imagine their greatness, touch their feet and do our very small bits. Pay a visit to  LBP Hemalkasa, SEARCH,  and I promise it will change your vision towards life.

Prakash Amte and Family

A big thank you to all the farmers of our country. I am completely aware that you need more than wishes from us. We promise we would do our best to be thankful to your extreme hard work.
Naam foundation can be a good thing to start with. Writing this Blog, I am feeling so safe and sound at my home. I mustn't forget that it's only because of all the brave-hearts patrolling our country. If there is anyone you should be thankful to, it's the Armed forces of our country. Guys, least we can do is, whenever we get to see anyone from Armed forces, let's Stop and Salute them.

"It's our lives to live because it's theirs to give"

Indian Soldiers at Siachen

I would also like to thank  to all the people who find me uncapabable, who think that I cannot achieve something. Trust me fellows, you are my biggest motivators. I love, when my haters get to see me succeed. You guys are my Turkey on every Thanksgiving😂

Turkey Feast

Lastly I would like to thank the almighty for making this beautiful journey called Life. We, the travelers must make sure, we make it even more beautiful. Thank you Readers for patiently reading my article. Do not forget to share it with your loved ones (I don't mind haters either).

Request you all to comment the name of the person you want to Thank today.

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How adventurous could cycling in mountains be?

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Lance Bhujbal' aka Nikhil here.
Today, I complete 2 years of my 1st Adventure trek with #YHAI.
Here is my Article that got published in #MaharashtraTimes

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Is the common man really stupid? Find out...

Hello ₹eaders,
Yes, that's intentional. I am sure you must be tired, returning from the banks after exchanging or depositing your white money (I don't want people with Black money to be my Readers😠). Disadvantages of population growth is taught in Civics Std.7 I believe, right? #Demonetization.

Friends, if you can stand in long queues for "Free" Jio Sim or to get auditioned and abused in a stupid show like Roadies, we can definitely do so for the betterment of our country. Let's co-operate as much as we can to all the Bank employees. Do help in educating the people who are unaware of the 500/1000₹ note regulations.

However, this Blog isn't about ₹. Standing in the queue today, I saw many faces, and  I thought of writing about 'Us'. People who are most less talked of, often termed as a stupid common man.

We, the common man of this motherland are so interesting. For instance, yesterday while travelling in the train, I heard a Guy saying, 'Abhi yeh Donald Trump ka aana India k liye achcha nahiye', The other guy replied, 'Wapas Obama hi chahye tha re'.(Thank God, he didn't say Osama. Mind you, he can amend the US Constitution if he wants to). I doubt if either of them knew, who is the current Mayor of Mumbai.

Cricket: A sport that's spoken more, than played.
Tell me, haven't you heard, 'Sachin ko abhi hook marne nahi jamta'? Of course they can play it much better than him. That's still OK, I have seen Mr. Saba Karim saying this on national Televison, 'Sachin Paaji ko bhi samajhna hoga kii khelne ki ek strategy hoti hai'. What? Saba Karim is a common man too, isn't he?

Trust me, my Mom did Tika to our (New) TV in 2003 once Sachin started batting against Pak. I wish, Mom had applied Chandan too, and he would have scored 2 runs more. Damn! 'Phootbaal main woh mazza nahye re' and hence over 200 countries are stupid.

Travel with 'Us' and you'll get to know, which politician has how much 'Our' money and where. They get this information even before the minister's themselves. 'Hamare paise se humko hi Daru n Biryani' is the favorite line after participating in the rally of any minister. I think the Filmstars start dating only after our permission,'Phillam line main sabb chalta hai re'. Keeping track of their net worth is our birth right. 'Sarookh Dubai gaya hai' is known to us before Gauri.

Travel to any fort or monument and the guide will give you all the information based on his mood and not based on history. Is it necessary that every time Shah Jahan only builds Taj Mahal? Astrologers here, know much more than Astronauts. I swear, I heard Nirmal Baba asking a guy, 'Tumko dekh k Kutta kyu yaad aa raha hai?'. That man must be thinking, Why The F did I pay 3900 for? I still don't understand, why don't all the Baba Bangalis apply their Mantra's Havan's on themselves, so that 'Kripa bani rahegi'.

Go to any small village, and the most educated guy, irrespective of his degree become Hakim or Vaidya.  From Cold to Cancer, from Ache to AIDS, he has 4 types of Churans which are more than enough. The disease does vanish, if it doesn't, the patient definitely does.

It's an unending story, isn't it. Trust me guys, it was not about making fun of 'Us'. It was about the simplicity that we possess, the purity that you have in your eyes, the beauty of your heart. We all are unbelievable in so many ways. Let us all make 'Us' special and get ourselves trending on Facebook  and Twitter too. Allow me to quote Hon. Mr. Rabindranath Tagore,

'It is very simple to be happy, but it is very difficult to be Simple'

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Can we really be proud of our festivals?

Hello Readers,Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Carnival Chacha' aka Nikhil here.

If we combine all the religions in our country, I am sure we must be celebrating close to 50 festivals in an year. Half of them are nothing more than national holidays for us, isn't it? No matter what the truth is, we still continue to shield ourselves with terms like, 'Culture' and 'Festivals'.

Do you really think we still have the right to brag about them?
If You think so,' request you to kindly read my Blog, 'Hypocritically Yours' first.

However, writing this Blog to share my thoughts on our Festivals. Question here is, have we really maintained the Serenity of our Festivals. Do we really get the divine feeling? I personally don't.

Booking an auditorium, charging hefty entry fees and making Falguni Pathak earn.
Do you think it must be pleasing Goddess Durga? Who even thinks about the Goddess anyways.

Dancing on the tunes of Jhingaat and DJ Wale Babu, isn't why Lokmanya tilak started Ganesh Festival. Lord Krishna never preached to get slaughtered on the occasion of Dahi Handi. How about the business of, higher the human pyarmid, higher the prize money. Drink on the Gatari evening as you will have to suddenly become spiritual and sophisticated in the month of Shravana.

On a lighter note, I really doubt how many wives really want same husband even on Karva-Chauth.

These are merely some examples and the problem is faced in each and every religion.
Green Diwali, Waterless Holi are welcome initiatives. Shouldn't we also talk about bloodless Eid too. At the time of Paryushana, rather than staying hungry, how about feeding the hungry.

Don't you think it's time we fine-tune our festivals a bit as per the need of the hour.

Let us make Festive season as the season of Giving. Give Kaju Katli to the garbage collector and he will finally have something good to hold. Donate blood on all our prime festivals. Visit an old-age home and assure them, not all sons/daughters are ungrateful. Visit an orphanage or special child homes and let them know that they are actually special.

Many things can be done and many stupid things can be avoided to make our festivals something really to be proud of.

Lastly, wish you all a very happy and prosperous Diwali.
Keep the Pharal ready, I am coming.

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Aajse theek 28 saal pehle...

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Birthday Cake' aka Nikhil here.

I turned off my Facebook Birthday notification, and nobody bothered wishing me😒. God bless everyone who have wished me today, everyone else, buy me a costlier present😈.

Yes, it's my 28th Birthday today and what better date for my 5th Post.

I haven't lived a Shah Rukh Khan Life, but still sharing and thanking my 28 years with you.

Childhood: I have lived a perfect middle class family life in my childhood. My parents have always given me each and everything even before I had asked for. Perks of being an alone child you could say. I used to weigh more than 90 kgs even before my SSC, that sounds as a reasonable proof. Potato Chips and Chicken Schezwan Rice were easily visible.

Parents: My Dad was one person, whom I can easily say was 10 times intelligent than me. May it be any subject, Mathematics, History, Geography, Art, anything he was an ocean of knowledge. We lost him 5 years back and I can safely say, it wasn't just our loss, it was a loss to a lot of people.
My Mom is a very simple and introvert woman. She is really mischievous with me. Our Masti just doesn't stop. Trust me guys, no Mother would be loving her son as much as she loves me. I am 10 mins late and her heart beat skips. She isn't blessed with best of health, so guys if you want to give me anything on my Birthday, give wishes for my Mom's good health.

College Life: I was an Outstanding, or rather Standing Out student in my College days. 5 out of 70 were spoiled students in the class. I was 1 of them and only the other 4 are my college friends till date and will always be. The other 65 nerds ain't any Scientists or Astronauts. So, we can proudly say, we enjoyed our College in the way it should be and still have reached where we wanted to. I was a complete fashion disaster then, I look at my old photos and wish I could time travel. Not a fashionista now, but much more bearable.

Job/Placement: Eyebrows were raised when I got campus recruited in a renowned MNC and never looked back since then. Success, rewards and recognition have been kind to me. Do not ask me my package, as I have this funny habit of telling any random figure that comes into my mind depending on my mood.

Friends: I have very few but loyal Friends. Honestly speaking, at times I do get disheartened because of my 'Expectations'. I do so much for them, try and make them special, why can't I get the same in return. I wish I had a Friend like me, feeling disturbs at times. But then, everybody does not get everything. They are always there for me in my bad times which is more than enough for me.

Wanderlust: Adventure is one things that excites me and my buddies. Cycling in mountains, Scuba Diving have been ticked. Riding Bullet in Leh-Ladakh, Bungee jumping in Hrishikesh does not look far away. O Ya! Next week is our 'What happens in Goa, Stays in Goa'.

Now On: Lived a lot for my own self and would do so forever, but would do my bit for the society as well. Visit orphanages and old age homes more often. Donate blood, teach the illiterate more religiously. Will spend less time on my mobile and more with my Mom. God has given me much much more than I deserve, time for me to give as well.

My Blog: Started my Blog on Valentine's day to express and not to impress. This is the one thing which I really love doing, 'Writing my Heart' to you guys. Once again thanks everyone for reading.
Have a Birthday Dinner Party tonight and you all are invited (with Gifts).

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It's shocking, how addicted we are to the word 'Brand'

Hello Readers,Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Shopaholic' aka Nikhil here.

It's the last Sunday of the month and you must have already got 'Salary has been Credited' SMS.
So I'm sure you must be in a good mood to read the Blog 😤

Every single weekend, we open all the Online Shopping Websites(and buy inessential stuff).Uumm, I still make sure I sort 'Price: Low - to - High', how bout you?

Aahh! there you go, just as I type I got the SMS, 'My Order has been placed for Bla-Bla'.

Well, without getting into the debate whether, Online Shopping has hampered the business of local Shopkeepers,or has increased unemployment,or  isn't reliable enough, or 'Alert: Special discount only for you' is a hoax and so on, what I personally feel and want to convey via this Blog is, Online Shopping definitely lacks, 'The Human Touch'.

I still remember, I used to go with my Mom for buying her a Saree (which used to transform into Sarees) and her conversation with her regular Salesman. He used to greet her with a smile, Mom used to ask his whereabouts. Same was the case with Sabziwala, Grocer, Laundry boy and who not. Some may argue it was their business tactic, so be it. There was definitely a pleasant feeling, a joy of buying something new, an eager to show it to neighbors. Haven't we left this behind? We have got so addicted to the word 'Brand', I won't be surprised if someone Google's 'Online Branded Happiness'. Somehow we are finding joy in 'Being Human - Clothing' rather than 'Being Human'.

So, I insist, buy a Balloon from that old man in the garden and gift it back to his own granddaughter standing next to him. Next time you eat a WadaPav, buy one more and give it to the little one who is touching you for some money. All the pretty Women (OK, Girls) buy some accessories from her who sells them in Ladies compartment. Give it to someone if you don't intend to use them, doesn't matter.
I request you to stop bargaining with the roadside vendors. You may end up spending some more and he may judge u a fool. I suggest, be that fool, because it's only wise to give the needy.
If you can't bargain while buying Gold bangles, why bargain for Glass.

Aahh! there you go, just as I type I got the SMS, 'Your Order has been Cancelled for Bla-Bla'.

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Is India a Hypocritical nation?

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Plaster Saint' aka Nikhil here.

Yeah, back after a 4 month gap. Good writers require a "SUBJECT" you know.
That's my intentional show-off to introduce you to my Blog about how 'Hypocrite' we Indians are. Let me make it very clear that I absolutely love my country, it's culture, festivals and diversity. Having said that, words like 'Sanskaar' and 'Sanskriti' which we use as defense mechanism against every developed nation individual, won't feed the hungry.

So, while we are progressing a lot internationally since last two years (if you know what I mean :p), the internal Hypocrite demons are striving hard to hamper our progress.

We watch porn in parliament and a porn star on TV, wonder which Sanskaar are we really talking about. Use the word S#X, (See, even I am an hypocrite hesitant to write the word) and a man who has 7 Daughters and finally 1 Boy will judge you.

I support Gender equality. Oh, I forgot women have reservation at every single place. Dowry is undoubtedly a Crime but then, why even accept an alimony after divorce. Misogyny isn't without a reason. Very few girls allow an old-age man to sit on a women reserved seat. Anyone seen a girl sharing Resto and Shopping Bills, except the, Fair & Lovely Girl who wants a match 'Equal-Equal'.

Racism is the last thing we must tolerate. But don't you think it should start from ourselves.
Chinki, Negro, Kalya are our easy going words. Teasing a foreigner in our local language is our favorite pastime.

Need a solution against Rape? Simple, stop wearing short clothes and don't go out alone after 7pm.
Come On, don't you know how much a candle march helps Rape or Bomb blast victims. The culprits/terrorists tend to self arrest themselves.

Our temples are full of gold and stomachs without bread. Our scientists successfully launched satellite to Mangal and on the other hand, an Actress marries a tree because she is Manglik.
I still laugh at Indians who changed there FB DP to Rainbow colored for LGBT rights.

There are hundreds of such examples we need to get over if we really want to see a peaceful, prosperous and developing India.

Arey Yeh Udta Punjab ko BAN karo rey,
Main Suna usme Drugs aur Gaali hai, BC !!!

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नेमाने दर मंगळवारी देवळात येतो, पण I Am  Afraid गेल्या मंगळवारी नाही येऊ शकलो, Workload खूप होता. बहुधा पुढच्या मंगळवारी पण नाही येणार, Client meet is so crucial. निर्लज्जासारखी कारणं बाप्पाला देत मी आज देवळात शिरलो.

मनाने नमस्कार करणं  आम्हाला कधी जमलंच नाही, म्हणूनच हातांची मदत घेऊन, सुख-समृद्धी, ऐश्वर्य, आरोग्य हे  माझे जन्मसिद्ध हक्क आहेत, या आविर्भावाने मागू, किंबहुना हुकुम सोडू लागलो.

पैसा व उच्च-शिक्षणाने  आलेला 'मी' पणा काही आम्हाला लपवता येत नाही.  मोठं  होण्याचा जीवघेण्या शर्यतीत, माणूस म्हणून आम्ही फार लहान झालो. लहानपणीच्या मित्रांना कट्ट्यावर भेटणे, छंद  जोपासणे आणि सर्वात महत्वाचं म्हणजे स्वतः साठी जगणं आता इतिहासजमा झालं आहे. SLA, CTC, LPA  हेच आमचे दया  क्षमा  शांती.

दिवाळीत(च)  जग जिंकल्याच्या आनंदाने कपडे  घेणारा मी, आता भकास चेहऱ्याने दर महिन्याला मॉल मध्ये Branded उधळपट्टी  करतो. चहा  म्हटलं  की सिगरेट  हवीच, बियर  म्हणजे दारू नाही, दाबून पॅकेज छापणार आणि चाळीशीत निवृत्त होणार, या आमच्या श्रीमुखातून येणाऱ्या हमखास ओळी. निवृत्ती पुढील आयुष्य योजणारे आम्ही, दिवसभर एका खुर्चीत बसून, स्थूलता वाढवत, ताण घेत, गोर्यांची हाजी-हाजी करतं , आयुष्याची हानी कधी करून घेतो आमचं आम्हालाच कळतं नाही.

पैसा परमेश्वर नाही, हे जितकं लवकर कळेल, तितकं लवकर माणसं, प्रेम, जिव्हाळा, निसर्ग, या सारखे outdated  वाटणारे अनमोल शब्द आम्हाला  कळतील. पैसा महत्वाचा आहेच. दानपेटीशिवाय तर गाभाराही पूर्ण होत नाही, पण आयुष्यात सुख आणि पैसा यात अद्रुष्य  रेखा आखायचं  ठरवलं .

देवाला प्रथमच मनातून नमस्कार केला, मागीतला  काही नाही फक्त आभार मानले आणि आश्वासन दिलं , आयुष्य खूप सुंदर आहे त्याला मी आणखी सुंदर बनवणार

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Love, Break-Up, Freindzoned is trending. This is why...

Hello Lovely People,
It's your homeboy 'Aaj Pooja Kal Dooja' aka Nikhil here.

Writing has always been my passion. It allows me to shout silently. Tech/Socio era has made me turn from Single Line pages & Pen to Blog & Keyboard. So, losing weight and writing BLOG were my 2016 New Year resolutions. Never mind about the first, but I will stick to the second. Couldn't have find a better day  than Valentine's, wherein Love is in the Air. By no means, I would try and be a Will Smith or Salman Khan. I am just going to express from what I observe.

I think Loving someone is the easiest thing to do.

C.T.U.(Those who thought CTU means Counter Terrorist Unit are Fans of '24' like Me, and are Single, again Like Me).Care, Trust and Understand and you are ready to be called an Awesome Lover. These 3 things make it the most difficult job on the planet too.

We generally have 2 kinds of Boy-friends: Begging, pleading, on their knees so that his girl doesn't break-up. Chuck Ego, this type has forgotten Self-Respect, just like an SRK fan has forgot Ra-One. Second type is: Violent, spoiled brat, who finds no difference between Toy and his Girl.

Can't we strike the right balance?

                                      

Woo her, hold her hand in public, and give her the extra attention when with a bunch of mates.

Never ever forget to respect her, before you love her and  she'll do anything for you. How much ever we talk about equality, he needs her more than she needs him.

I completely agree Pyaar Ka Punchnama was just a movie and hence dramatized, but no smoke without fire. Pretty girls,you have got us to a situation wherein a misogyny movie can be related with.

Girls tend to misuse his too much availability. Do not make 'taking for granted' as your favorite pastime. Real Men cry as well, needs to be understood. Yes, Male Ego is a well-known term but no harm in making him feel special over your so called best friend.

According to me, worst enemies for a relationship these days are Facebook and Whatsapp. Last Seen has killed faith to a large extent. Yes, one must absolutely trust his/her partner, but at the same time, not making him/her look a fool is equally important, ins't it?

I can go on and on...

Before I conclude, I would like to touch two words that are in style, 'Friend-zoned' and 'Move-On'

Friend-zoned is 'I Love you, but...' category. For me, in Love it's all or nothing. Date her/ Marry her, try everything you could to convince your partner. However, if it's not happening, Move-On and Cut the strings. It's only stupid to continue as 'Just Friends' and bury your heart, watching him/her go on a Date with someone else.

'Move-On', phase has to be strictly dealt in a matured manner. Abusing her, commenting on her character, will only show your character. Drinking only prospers the hotel owner. Wish them Luck, have highest regards and say Good-Bye. Easy isn't it? Naah! I know it isn't but probably only way.

Most important thing is, never ever get into next relationship quickly only because you are single. Keep yourselves on reserve for the one who deserve. It's the best time to pursue Hobbies and spend priceless time with your family.

Okay Friends, signing off my first Blog. Hope you could relate.

May love be with you, always and forever. Happy Valentine’s Day.

Kindly share the Post with your partner.
(I have absolutely no problem, if you share it with your 'Ex' 😼)

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